From my limited understanding of them, threesomes can either make you feel like a baller or like total shit. They can result from drunken nights, sleepovers, and even from calculated conversations. For some couples, they are an exciting and new way to explore a new sexual frontier; for others a threesome can represent a last-ditch effort to reignite a spark. I had my first foursome in college. I was with my best friend at the time and another couple. We drank a large amount of wine, we laughed for what felt like hours. We cuddled, we kissed; it felt very safe. I felt a closeness to all of them that I hadn't before; it was the first time in a long while that I understood that sex could equal a connection with another, not just a kick-ass orgasm. Everyone has fun, right? I asked 10 different people whether they thought threesomes brought them and their significant other closer together, or farther apart:.

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I keep thinking about threesomes and other kinky games. I love my girlfriend, but I find other women attractive, too. What do you think? Am I a male pig trying to have his cake and eat it? How do I pursue my happiness without hurting the woman I love? Mariella replies Imaginatively, like the rest of us?
How to Have a Threesome With Your Girlfriend
Sometimes in a relationship, you're not sure how to phrase a delicate subject or tricky topic. Sure, saying nothing at all is easy, but avoiding the subject doesn't do anyone any good. Awkward Conversations provides you with a template for what to say — and what not to say — and why, so you can have those difficult discussions without them turning into full-blown fights. It's a phantom thought that has occurred to most people in a long-term relationship: What if we had a threesome? That super sexy scene from that movie I watched last week — could I recreate that with my girlfriend? It's the ultimate fantasy, but it's definitely not an easy thing to bring up with the person you're dating! Here are some tips you can use to ensure that the dreaded Threesome Conversation goes smoothly. It's true that long-term relationships have boring phases, but pointing this out to your partner will only hurt their feelings! Nobody wants to feel that they're a boring or inadequate partner. You: "Don't you think our sex life is getting boring of late?
These questions will plant the right seeds, eventually leading to more and more threesome-y conversations. Few things are sexier than erotica couched as a first-person confessional. Luckily, there are a lot of mostly appealing threesome accounts written by females. Share a few of these fascinating stories with your girlfriend—not all at once, but over the course of a few weeks, or months. Since quite a few highly regarded famous people have spoken freely about their involvement in threesomes, you might as well use this to your advantage. One non-threatening way to do this is to watch television programs and movies that highlight the act as glamorous and satisfying for all parties involved. Obviously, steer clear of movies that depict threesomes as debauched, shameful, or at all disappointing.