On December 17, Tumblr banned adult content on their platform. The move was rumored to be a knee-jerk response to Apple removing Tumblr from its App Store over failing to adequately filter out child pornography. While that is certainly an understandable and valid reason for removing the app, instead of improving their filtering system, Tumblr decided to ban all adult content altogether. In doing so, they destroyed a massive social media community and outlet where people, especially underrepresented communities, could freely express their sexuality. I was one of those people. I was in the midst of ending a sexless and passionless marriage, and while I never took much pleasure in sex anyway, I knew others did, which gave me a resounding and incessant urge to find out what I was missing. But how would I even start? What turned me on? How would I find it and articulate it not just to myself, but to a partner? Mainstream porn sites only offered clips of brightly lit, conventionally-attractive people with hard bodies having what seemed to be a very athletic, staged, and mechanical style of sex.
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I feel about a billion years old, because apparently all of the young cool hip people find most of their porn on Tumblr. Which brings some questions to mind. What's a Tumblr? How does one "Internet"? But really, I'm new to this. I mean, I tend to stick to sites with the word "porn" right in the name, because, well, it does what it says. But there must be a reason so many people are using Tumblr for porn , and I wanted to figure out what it was.
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If you try to deconvert her I suggest indirectly at first. LDS theology heavily promotes the idea that marriage and family are an important source of happiness in this life, not just the next. This also means giving her something specific to do. If she identifies as a Mormon, then she probably takes her faith seriously, and it means a lot to her. In fact, you likely will meet a few.
She is going on a mission which means she is heavily invested in performing according to the cultural expectations. The first time that happened could have been viewed as a warning sticker, and been your cue to exit stage right. I have been happily married to a non-mormon for 20 years. Find some small proxy act of affection that can be done regularly to say that he cares about you, and that can be kept sacred as a stand-in for everything else that's missed. Dont aggressively try to destroy her faith but bring up philosophical thinking points. We've been dating two plus years, and we find a key is taking vacations. That question really put things into perspective for me, so thank you. So you made a wise decision.
